Have a Debt Free Christmas
December 9, 2008 at 7:00 am , by Emily
photo credit: thisisbossi
This holiday season is my 5th since becoming debt free. It hasn’t always been easy not to get caught up in the excitement and the chaos and spend more than I should this time of year. I would like to share some ideas for avoiding debt this Christmas.
- Set a budget you can afford – it doesn’t matter if you use cash, debit or credit – the point is that you look at your means and decide what your family can afford and stick to it.
- Prioritize – Look at what is important to you and what will really make this season joyful for you and your family and do those things. You can’t be everything to everyone, so just do what you can and enjoy it.
- Get creative – from decorating to gift giving, wrapping, baking, and sending cards, think outside the box and see what you can make instead of buy. Remember the true spirit of the season isn’t found in a pile of receipts.
- Turn off the TV! – I can’t tell you how frustrated I get at ads for stores that tell you to shop there because their stuff is so cheap, you can buy MORE stuff for under the tree!!
- Keep it simple – don’t buy a bunch of plastic junk just so there is more stuff for your kids or grandkids to open. Give gifts that are special. We are not born to think that Christmas means being showered with too much junk. We learn it. Kids will think a few nice gifts are wonderful under a little Charlie Brown Christmas tree if that’s all they know and they feel the love from family. Love isn’t found or shown in wrapped boxes.
- Here are some links for homemade and simple holiday ideas that will help you have a debt-free Christmas:
11 Ways to Wrap Gifts Without Wrapping Paper
DIY Wrap Up: 101 Gift Tags, Toppers and Wraps
A DIY Christmas: 34 Great Gifts You Can Make Yourself
This one is a good reminder about the expectations we teach and learn about Christmas:
Examining Expectations: You Are Not The Jones.
I hope you have a very merry, love-filled Christmas that doesn’t result in a stack of bills arriving in January. THAT sounds like a Merry Christmas to me.
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by Amy from Texas
On December 9, 2008 at 8:49 am
Great ideas. We’ve been debt free for over 8 years. I’m speaking about teaching your kids about managing money this Monday and I’m using some of your tips in my talk! People really do get wrapped up in the buying and forget what the season is really about. This is a great reminder:-)
Amy from Texas´s last blog post..Gifts from Kids
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by FFB
On December 9, 2008 at 8:49 am
Great ideas!
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by Julia @ Hooked on Houses
On December 9, 2008 at 12:34 pm
Great tips!
Last February, after recovering from the shock of the Visa bill that arrived in January, we started setting aside money each month for this year’s gifts. We had an automatic withdrawal into a high-interest money-market account from every paycheck, so it was fairly painless. Now I’ve got the money we saved all year, and when I’ve spent it all, we’re done. No credit card bills to fear this time around. And because I have a set amount, I am scaling everything back, too.
What fun is Christmas if you know you’re going to hate yourself in January?
Julia @ Hooked on Houses´s last blog post..“While You Were Sleeping:” Christmas in Chicago
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by Emily
On December 9, 2008 at 1:45 pm
Julia, it’s a great idea and we did that this year too. Not all year, but we started setting money aside each paycheck around July. It’s a great tip, that I’ll have to be sure to share in January. It’s a little late now if you haven’t done it yet
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by Liz@VioletPosy
On December 9, 2008 at 1:52 pm
I’m not debt free but I’m trying very hard to be. We save each month for Christmas and this year we’ve put half the Christmas Savings into a pot for 2009’s family holiday, so we can’t spend as much and it means that we’ll have at least my daughter’s ticket paid for.
Also this year I’ve stored my daughter’s present in a small cupboard and I know that it’s full now and there is nothing more I can get in there so it’s time to stop the madness!.
My other trick is to ‘re-gift’, if we get a present that’s not our ‘thing’ I’ll pop it in a closet with a postit note on saying who’s bought it. Then I’ll get it out for a birthday or a Christmas present next year, but I make more of an effort to give it to someone who’ll love it.
Liz@VioletPosy´s last blog post..Something to Share
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by laura @ move to portugal
On December 9, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Hi Emily, great post.
This year I’ve set my smallest ever budget for Christmas and it feels great. Also the joy of not using a credit card makes it even better!
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by Squawkfox
On December 9, 2008 at 4:05 pm
Being debt free is a wonderful feeling.
Thank you so much for the linky lovey mention!
I’ll never use gift wrap again.
Squawkfox´s last blog post..Printable Sewing Patterns: Softie Christmas Tree
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by melissa @ the inspired room
On December 9, 2008 at 7:16 pm
Great tips as always Em!
Thanks for putting them together.
Happy saving and a wonderfully frugal holiday to all!
Melissa
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by Denise
On December 9, 2008 at 9:58 pm
too funny – I just posted about the same thing. We are not debt free either but have used only cash that I had in savings for this Christmas. It feels so much better than using credit!! Now, that makes for a Merry Christmas : )
Denise´s last blog post..it takes me a while
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by Rebekah at EAD
On December 10, 2008 at 12:27 pm
We set a limit of $140. $50 each for our personal gifts to each other (with the stipulation that all gifts had to be handmade), and $40 for decor (a small tree and candle). I have never felt more excited about Christmas! (Followed your comment on Paid Twice)
Rebekah at EAD´s last blog post..Recipe: Hot Cocoa and Marshmallows
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by Liz
On December 10, 2008 at 4:25 pm
Fabulous advice!
Liz´s last blog post..Sugar Cookies and a Nair-plosion
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by kim
On December 11, 2008 at 9:49 pm
This is my first debt free year in a long time…so exciting!
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by Kevin @ Bankruptcy Alternatives
On December 16, 2008 at 9:27 am
Hello everyone,
A wonderful guide. Though I would like to debate 1 point.
I think it is better to spend only Cash or through Debit cards.
Spending through Credit cards really adds up to the problem.
As,
1. You end up spending more.
2. You need to pay interest.
I prefer cash, dont know about others.
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by Emily
On December 16, 2008 at 9:34 am
Kevin, I personally agree with you and only use cash or debit (don’t even have a credit card) but also know that there are people who can actually use credit wisely and it doesn’t automatically mean paying interest or adding to debt, unlike myself
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by Kevin @ Bankruptcy Alternatives
On December 16, 2008 at 10:20 am
Emily,
With due respect, I am yet to find someone who can use credit cards wisely. Needs a lot of discipline. This is what I have done. Maybe this can help others. I have around 20 credit cards. I thought of canceling them first, but I was suggested that it would not be good for my credit scores, so I cut all of them into half and kept them at a safe place. Now I really don’t need to be disciplined.
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by Surayah Davis
On December 25, 2009 at 11:07 am
I totally agree. Being debt-free(and REMAINING debt-free after the holidays are over) is absolutely the best present you can give yourself & your family!
.-= Surayah Davis´s last blog ..Who’s Business Are You Minding? =-.
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