Comments on: Do Your Kids A Favor By Saying No

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By: ana

ana — Tue, 12 May 2009 09:44:58 +0000

i’ve been looking for that thank you

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By: Katie

Katie — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 15:32:12 +0000

This post is fantastic. I work as a cashier and I’m always appalled when the parents tell a kid they can’t have a little toy or some candy, then, after the kid either asks another ten times or starts crying they give in just to get them to stop. And I can assure you I’m not the only one at the checkout who thinks this way. It’s always great when the child is standing patiently with their parents and they offer them a small toy or some candy and the kid gets really exited. Especially when it’s people who come in all the time so we know it’s not a regular occurrence.

By: B

Sat, 12 Jul 2008 03:44:39 +0000

I wish I was told no when I was a kid. I am a freethinker but I wasted so much time being insecure when I was younger. My parents could not say no to me… and I liked to eat. Later in my teens I lost all the weight, and I realize the effects now. I still have to deal with problems from it to this day.

By: Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.

Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D. — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:05:59 +0000

Thanks for sharing this very critical post.

Learning to say no to our children and others is not only important to help them to respect boundaries, but to help us learn to be kind to ourselves.

Anyone who depends on someone else’s approval for their own happiness is doomed to a roller coaster existence.

I gave my children and grandchildren more time than money, and as a result they appreciate their earnings and are thoughtful about their spending (even more so than I was at their ages.) I found that money spent on experiences such as trips and music lessons were dollars well-spent.

Things they insisted on having that weren’t in my budget or my consciousness such as Jordache jeans (the popular brand when my oldest was a teen) they had to buy with their own money. To this day, my now-38-year-old daughter confides the tremendous letdown she felt when she spent all of her monetary graduation gifts on that pair of have-to-have jeans.

I admit that I was not as disciplined with spending on my grandchildren as I was with my own children, but they still managed to learn the value of money and be appreciative, especially as they get older.