Perhaps you’ve noticed a theme of late in my writing. I promise, it won’t last forever. Or, gosh, I just really hope it won’t.
As hubby says, “I’m not ranting, I’m philosophizing”. Okay, dear.
So here is my philosophizing for the day.
I went to the doctor this afternoon for a sick visit. I go to a practice of 6 doctors. My hubby has a different doctor than I do. Well, he did before I left the house today, anyway. So I am scheduled with the same doctor I have seen once before, a doctor that by a stroke of misfortune on my part was the only doctor available when I called to set myself up with a primary doctor last month. Little did I know then the office’s policy of not letting you switch doctors once you’ve seen one.
I am getting ahead of myself. I called yesterday (Sunday) morning to the on-call line because I was sick. In pain. Wanted to know what they thought. Hubby’s doctor was the on-call doctor and told me that he didn’t think what I was describing was strep, but he thought it might be mono because that has been going around. I should call in the morning (today) and make an appointment to see my doctor, get a strep test to rule that out and then if it’s not strep, be tested for mono. Fine. Great. Wonderful. I’ll do that.
So, I did. I called and got myself in to see my doctor this afternoon. The doctor walked into the room, didn’t look at me, didn’t say hello, just said “what’s wrong? oh, I see on your chart. You have a sore throat. Okay, when did it start.” Me: “Wednesday. Thursday, Friday, Saturday I had fever, chills, bodyaches, and swollen glands. The fever, chills and bodyaches are gone but my throat still hurts and my glands are still swollen.” Him: “Okay, well, based on your age and your symptoms, you probably have strep. I’ll write you a prescription for Zithromax to clear it up.” After writing the script, he stood about 3 feet from me with a flashlight to pretend he was actually looking at the part of my body that I was there to have examined. Listened to my chest once. Walked out the door. Done.
HUH?!
Maybe I’m crazy. Maybe I expect too much, but I was baffled. I just got prescribed an antibiotic for strep and he didn’t even test me for it to see if I have it. Is this all they think people want when they walk into an office now? Just give me a drug and I’ll be on my way? I don’t want to pay $35 copays just to have a doctor spend 3 minutes with me and not examine me and then expect me to go drop more money on drugs I don’t need. I walked out to the checkout desk and stood there waiting for someone. A woman came to check me out and I quietly asked if I could switch doctors for next time I have to come. That’s when I learned that clever little policy of if you want to switch doctors, you have to leave the practice entirely. Okay, whatever. I walked out.
I was about 3 feet out the front door walking down the sidewalk when I grabbed my daughter’s hand and said. “No. Wait. We’re going back in there.” I marched my defiant self back to the reception desk and explained (kindly) that I had been told by Doctor Z the day before that I would be tested for strep and if not that, for mono, and I was tested for neither. She replied “well, he did a strep swab, right?” “NO! No he did not.” She went and found the nurse administrator in charge lady (who I was gladly 2 feet taller than at that moment – made me feel all powerful and bossy when I was mad). They shuffled me into a private room probably afraid I might explode and embarrass them in front of the unsuspecting patients waiting in the waiting room.
I explained how my appointment went down and asked if I could get a strep test to actually determine that I have what they are medicating me for. I am not against medication, don’t get me wrong. I don’t pop pills like crazy, but I think they have their place and there are times they are necessary. I have taken my fair share of over the counter and prescription meds the past month, but I like to know there is a NEED for them before I just blindly take something. My husband takes depression medication everyday. If I need medicine for myself or my family to be healthier and happier, great. I am not going to adamantly stand by refusing meds just because I want to. I just want what I am taking to be needed.
The woman got very defensive and then…THEN. You’ll never guess what she said.
“I will have someone come give you a strep test, but I will tell you now that if it comes back negative, I am going to take your prescription away from you!” She was nasty, thought she was being mean and menacing. Oh no! Please don’t take away the antibiotics that my body doesn’t need anyway! I’m shaking! </end sarcasm>. I politely said that it’s not the medicine I am concerned with, it’s getting a correct diagnosis so that I am treating what is actually wrong with me.
She sent someone in to test me. It came back negative for strep. Ha ha mean and menacing lady!
It gets better though, as she then informed me to keep my prescription, the treatment is the same. Treatment? For what? WHAT are you treating is what I would like to know! I asked for a mono test and she informed me that just because one doctor says that to me on the phone doesn’t mean that a doctor who sees me agrees and that it was his decision not to test for it. Okay, whatever, fine. I’ll go home now.
But first I’d like to know if I can switch doctors. It was then I was told I was being unreasonable and that she didn’t even understand what my problem with my visit was in the first place and that they only grant changes for good reason. “I’m a paying customer. I’m unhappy. That’s a good reason!” Then I left.
Two minutes after I walked in the door of my house I got a call from the friendly Doctor Z’s nurse thanking me for wanting to switch to Doctor Z and he would be happy to have me as a new patient. Yay! A minor victory!
I still don’t know what’s wrong with me, health-wise. I do know that philosophizing all afternoon about it outloud seemed to make my throat feel better. Maybe that’s all I needed. A good swift kick in the rear to jolt me out of my complacency and get me philosophizing again.








I AM SCREAMING WITH YOU!! I’m so sorry you went through all this and so sorry you are sick. Sending healing prayers your way!
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What is wrong with those people!
Kudos to you for standing up and getting heard.
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Good grief! I’m glad you were able to switch doctor’s! What a horrid experience!
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This is VERY common these days. Treat anything and everything with antibiotics–even if it doesn’t require treatment. I don’t even think about calling my dr for at least a week because most of the time things clear up on their own–this is after being on antibiotics a dozen times last year for what turned out to be allergies. Ugh!!! Don’t even get me started….
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Ugh, I recently had a frustrating experience with my doctor. I left in tears. I did discover though, that making a scene in the waiting room when other patients are waiting is VERY effective. I highly recommend it.
Generally speaking for me, any illness is almost always viral or bacterial (and nothing really serious). If it’s the first, it’ll self-resolve. If it’s the second, the antibiotics will kill it. So I wait a few days and if there’s no change, I get the antibiotics. For recurring infections, I skip all that and just demand the antibiotics.
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Oh, what I have to say about health care in the States! Two, three months ago, my 3-month-old baby fell down the stairs, we rushed her to ER. She got two fractures on her skull, but other than that, she was acting normal, and did not show any sign of brain damage, and was never in a critical condition, and yet the ER doc transfered her to ICU of another hospital to stay overnight. The next day, a neo surgeon looked the CT scan done the day before and sent us home, saying that “the bone will heal by itself.”
So far over $15,000 was billed to my insurance, and we paid $2000 so far.
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Good for you!! I can’t believe that dr wrote you a prescription for something without even testing you for it. That’s not right. You did the right thing.
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Wow. I am speechless. And the part where she’s going to “take away” your prescription? Give me a break.
I had a bad experience with my doctor in January. Long story, but it boils down to that same attitude of not caring. I didn’t go back for my annual exam I was so mad – which I know only hurts me, but I’m still steamed.
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Ugh. That’s awful. It’s not too much to expect a diagnosis. Especially since the drugs can have a bad effect on you…allergies, whatnot.
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Wow! You totally rock! I am 44 years old and I have had more than a few “bad doctor visits” in my lifetime, but I have never spoken up for myself the way you did. You will be my inspiration.
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Oh my gosh! That last thing you need to feel is anger when you’re so sick! Good for you for sticking up for yourself. That was totally unnecessary and I would report that doctor and staff!
Manuela
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